At the Self-Publishing Book Expo I attended recently in New York, I met three women whose memoirs successfully tackle these potentially overpowering topics:
- leaving your country of origin;
- growing up in a faraway land;
- being raped or sexually abused.
Past experiences such as these may seem too big to write about comfortably. But perspective changes everything. Check out these three memoirs and how each woman’s viewpoint has shaped her storytelling.
Leaving Your Country of Origin
Marie-Solange Benedict, author of Child of a Mountainous Land: Odyssey of a Haitian Refugee, writes a memoir about leaving her native Haiti in 1962 to escape the Duvalier dictatorship. She describes how she moved first to Liberia, West Africa, then to England, where she attended boarding school, and finally to the United States, where she currently resides in the Miami area. Marie-Solange, now an attorney, tells stories of how as an immigrant she encountered racism, struggled to overcome the frustrations faced by blacks in the United States, and finally transcended these problems through her faith in Jesus, God, and the Gospels. Thanks, Marie-Solange, for giving me an inscribed copy of your book.
Growing Up in an Exotic Land
Jean Naggar, author of Sipping from the Nile: My Exodus from Egypt, is a literary agent, book reviewer, writer, translator, and editor. Jean writes about growing up in the closely knit Jewish community of pre-1956 Cairo, Egypt. Her detailed descriptions, along with lots of photographs, detail a life that no longer exists, in the vein of Lucette Lagnado’s The Man in the White Sharkskin Suit, and Andre Aciman’s Out of Egypt.
Being Raped or Sexually Abused
Ann C. Willis, author of The Secret Behind the Church Altar, sat at the exhibit table next to mine. She told me she had driven from the Dallas area to attend the Self-Publishing Expo with her nephew, who shared the driving on their 27-hour trip. Ann’s memoir, like the movie Precious, takes up the theme of a young woman who is raped, sexually abused, and pregnant by her father. In Ann’s case, her father was a minister. Now a pastor herself, Ann gives seminars for others on how to deal with rape and sexual abuse. The Secret Behind the Church Altar is also available on Amazon.



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Thanks!
Keep up the good work, I like your writing.
Hi Martha,
Your blog is so informational. I am glad I came across it. I started writing my memoir a couple of years ago and have been posting some of my writings on my blog hoping to attract readers. I would love to have your input on what I have written. I will give you a little information here about it.
When I was seventeen my sister and me were in a car accident, she was killed instantly. My mom blamed me and would say she hated me and wished I had died instead of Kimmy. Through the years I developed eating disorders and depression that I still struggle with twenty years later.
I was in an abusive relationship. I have one son who is nineteen that I have raised and by the same abusive man raping me a year after I had my son gave birth in secrecy to a little baby girl whom I placed in a loving adoptive family. My son and she are one year and one day apart.
I look forward to seeing you visit my blog.
Sincerely,
Tina